What is love.

Off course, we all have different answer, mostly based on our experiences. But i was thinking last night, what actually is this. This is one of the most important and disastrous relation or force in one's life. But i am still confused that what actually is love. In our country, there are many love marriages around us, but very soon, after marriage, they came to know that it wasn't what they sacrificed for. Actually, we or human beings are made for living in fantasies. If we think in reality, then we will notice that we are living in fantasy. befor marriage, every thing seems to be fantasy. But after that we came to know that although love is necessary but this is not the only thing we require. Only love can't be every thing.

Joy Vs Money

If we look from our ist memory in our life, we will notice one thing. There is a inverse relation ship between joy and money. As much money you are trying to earn, as much far you are getting from joy. Joy just didn't meant by laughing, gathering, hanging out, movies, dates etc. It means some thing more meaningful but very simple. Joy is something that make you satisfy and calm. That let you love and live. You will notice that in our childhood, when there was no struggle for money, we were happy. No tention. No hustles. No Cheating. No frauds. No smoking. No drinking. No flirting. Means there was nothing bad in us. We were happy without money. Although money was a basic need then too. We always desired for as much money as our father or elders has. To take a lot of sweets, toys, games. But now when we have it, we are tense. If I remember my childhood, I wasn't a happy eater. I was and I am addict of video games and toffees. At that time, we just has daily pocket money, which I mostly spend on these two things. I always wished to have more and more money to have a lot of these things. But now, when I have, I don't have time for such things. I never went to that game shop where I used to spent a lot of time after school, on off days, in school break time. I don't want to have my childhood as many other has the same desire. It was lovely but it doesn't mean that we should always live there…

A new Entry

New entry is not always welcomed but mostly they bring very pleasant feelings. New entries mostly bring a revolution and a change in your life. New thoughts, new life, new plans and many such things. Some times they bring responsibilities as well but i think Allah gave us power to took the responsibility and courage to bear those new changes. 

Leaving something.......

Animals mostly get in touch with things like people, places or other animals. We being a type of animal, also possess such properties. We also get in touch with other people, things, places, environment and the ways we daily pass. We are made like this. So when we get away from these places, leave those places, change our paths, we can be disturbed. Some time this can hurt too. There are many times when we suffer all that. We change our old family residence due to some reason, Our school, office, shop or any place where we go daily, got shifted. Some special person get far away from us ( temporary or permanently). All these things make us disturb. So In all above mentioned times, we need some good time, some one to take care, some one to say us a warm welcome or a happy good bye. May be these things are too small but this can cure some one. The thing i want to say to all of you is just that "Never ever hesitate to give a little smile at someone's face, A little braveness to some one's heart. a little support to someone's mind."

Out of the Inner weakness

Love And Hate are 2 of other emotions mostly known to living beings.

But in my point of view, they are the outlets of the inside weakness for the one who own them for oneself, or even if they distribute anyone of them to other.

It’s all a confusing mystery that one can’t ever reach the conclusion. Both of the emotions have their Positive and negative aspects if found powerful ever.

Parents! They love their children more than anyone in the world can’t ever, which makes their children, strong and powerful, but at the same time they feel very weak inside being in love with their children in many other phases of life.

Being in love sometimes makes you so helpless. if it’s something powerful why is that so? That one gets ready to quit life? why don’t they get the courage out of it to go through life in a better manner?

Even regarding hatred; it makes you retarded sometimes if this emotion is powerful enough in your heart and you give it an outlet, you sometimes lose each and everything in your life which you have earned in life earlier, makes you and others feel embarrassed, it brings disgrace, tension, disorder in ones personality and in life too. Then how can we say that something that destructive is Powerful??

Isn’t it a maze really? To get to the exact opinion.

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Fatima Saleem